Fellas, Do You Give A Warning Before You Cum During A Blowjob?
You're nearly at the finish line of one of the best sexual acts known to man, a blow job. How you and a consenting adult chose to enjoy the experience is your business, no matter the partner, we all (hopefully) get to that same point of no return and have to make a decision. You can't hold it any longer, the release is inevitable, fellas do you give a warning before you bust in their mouth or nah?
The Fellas
"I don’t think of it as a warning as much as I am just a vocal person and talk during sex."
30, Heterosexual
"Yes I would give her a warning or ask before hand. I smoke a lot of cigars so sometimes according to my wife I doesn't taste good."
27, Straight Man
"I do. It’s as much about respecting kinks and my partner’s desires as it is about being courteous. I would expect the same from my partners!"
28, Gay
"Yes I do because I like girls telling me when they're going to cum so I know they like that shit too."
28, Straight
"It depends. if she’s giving me head for the first time then I’ll let her know. If she’s given me a blowjob before then she’s done it more than once. It’s either down her throat or on her face."
32, Mixed Heterosexual Male
"Define warning. It's not me to get to that point and be like 'oh shit... shit! SHIT! KEEP GOIN, I'M BOUT TO NUT!' Maybe a more subtle version of that. My lady, however, knows me well enough to know I hit these awkward squirming body motions and loud exhales at that moment. Conclusion: yes physically, not verbally."
27, Pan (Pansexual) Dude
"If I get that far with them and they can’t tell by my writhing/moaning, then #IssaLostCause. I’m usually the “giver” so if a partner gets my pants off and at a point of ejaculation, he’s gonna know! So, yes, I do give a “warning”, as it were. Conversely, if I do a good enough job, I’ll know exactly when my partner is going to ejaculate.”
29, Latino Gay Man
“Umm sort of. I am a very verbal Welsey Pipes kind of guy during sex so the closer I am to nutting the more shit I’ll talk but it’s definitely not a direct, ˜I’m about to cum’ kind of warning.”
27, Black Bisexual Male
Always. I usually tapped them on the side of the head to let em its about to get messy
26, Black Straight Man
“It’s only polite. Unless you know she swallows and then full send.”
25, African American Heterosexual Male
ASK THE LADIES: If you’re giving a guy a blowjob and he’s getting ready to cum, do you want a warning?
"I would definitely want a warning. For some reason I never been a fan of how semen looks. It just looks GROSS, like another version of spit. As much as I enjoy sex and experimenting. Nuttin in my mouth is just a flat out NO!"
27, Bisexual
"I know my dude pretty well so when he’s about to cum I can tell by his body language, moans, and shit so I guess that’s my warning. I'm not going stop though, it’s just me telling myself get ready to swallow. Now if he’s not my dude you damn sure better warn me so I can get out the way."
26, Black Heterosexual Female
“Nope I don't need a warning. Majority of the time you can tell by his body language when he's about to cum."
30, Bi-Sometimes
"I don’t need a warning. I usually can tell when a guy is about to cum but even if it catches me off guard, I’m not uptight about where he nuts. I don’t want to control my partners sexual experience either. I welcome the adventure and spontaneity that sex brings. I also don’t mind swallowing."
29, Black Female Heterosexual
"I absolutely want a warning! I’ve had two guys do it without a warning and I was caught off guard. Both times I spit that ish outta my mouth in front of them. I take it as a sign of disrespect to do that without asking me if I’m ok with swallowing. I don’t like the texture and taste is very potent. It’s definitely an acquired taste to say the least, lol. I think swallowing in someone’s mouth is pretty intimate in my opinion. So as long as we discuss it prior to game time I’d let things flow."
27, Black Bisexual Female
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